A LESSON OF LOVE EVERYONE SHOULD KNOW
In volume 2, they have talked about LOVE. From that day I am observing one thing in everyone's life is 'How a person behaves when he gets love and care from someone when he needed it the most?' and 'How a person behaves when he don't get love and care from someone when he needed it the most?'.
And here I am sharing the results of what i have observed.
We are seeing that so many people are commiting suicide and many people are becoming so rude to someone. These are because they are lacking something which is very very essential for every living object on this world..,
Hope you got that what I am trying to say :)
They are lacking "LOVE".
Belive it or not
But this is the fact; This is the truth.
When a person looses his loved ones or his family members he will suffer with a disease called Alienation (a type of deprivation because of lack of love from people around him).click on that Alienation to know about that disease.
When a person suffers from this disease, the very first dangerous sign we can see in him is 'rudeness'. Remember please rudeness is just a sign of alienation but from only this sign in a person,We start judging him, we start spreading negative opinions about him, we start avoiding him... What we are doing is, we are isolating him, we are not giving him the love and care what he needed. So being rude is not his fault.Here is the reason for that when aperson is avoided by someone what he will do is "he will search for another person to talk with". And all these are done by the people around him, whom he knows better, not strange people. So this affects his mental health.
After few days that person starts thinking that he is not good, then he starts thinking that only he is the wrong among people around him. His thought process changes completely. He decides to live alone, this loneliness makes him fearless.
The only person who acts as fearless person will suffer more pain because he won't get help from others when it needed the most.
This pain causes overthinking, this overthinking leads to GAD.GENERALIZED ANXIETY DISORDER
At this stage even if he finds someone who shows love and care,he thinks that these all are just for that instance. So he starts searching for permanent solutions for all his problems. He stops thinking about other's pain for loosing him. In this state of mind, he remembers the old incidents someone tried to escape from their problems...
Here he might take any worst decisions, but remember that he won't think these are worst because he only thinks his problems are worser than his decisions.
So he may commit suicide, drug addict or gets addicted to such similar stress busters.
The root ill cause of all these things are not getting Love from someone he was seeking.
So Please spread and show your unconditional love to everyone around you.
LOVE HAS THE POWER TO SAVE LIVES
LOVE CAN WIN OVER ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD
This is what i wanted to tell everyone... many of these thoughts are from my close observations and knowledge i gained by reading books like Learn To Live.
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Sooo True ����
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